Tuesday, August 2, 2022

Our Mary Elizabeth

Mary Beth Corey, 62, of Manhattan, beloved sister, aunt, niece, cousin and friend, died at home with her sisters beside her on July 27, 2022 after a sudden and swift illness.  

Mary Beth was born in Worcester, MA and was raised with her five sisters in Norwalk, Connecticut. Mary Beth was a standout student at Norwalk High School, Class of '78, and graduated from the College of the Holy Cross, where she majored in English. 

Shortly after graduation, Mary Beth moved to New York City, where she lived and worked for the rest of her adult life. Mary Beth's positive, supportive energy infused every relationship in her life; she was a truly selfless and kind soul, with a dazzling smile. Mary Beth was up for anything, always happy to meet for a drink or attend a concert or watch a game. She was unfailingly supportive and loyal to her wide circle of friends and family. She opened her cozy Manhattan apartment to visitors, and would often send helpful notes and maps in advance of their trip to the City. 

 Mary Beth was everybody's cheerleader. She adored her nieces and nephews - they could always count on a birthday card in the mail from Aunt Mary Beth with some gift-wrapped cash. Her niece Colleen captured her beloved aunt perfectly when she described Mary Beth as "brilliant, independent, sarcastic and kind." 

The novelty of the six Corey sisters was celebrated by the family and marveled at by those who encountered them, especially because they were uniquely close, and the love shared by the Corey family was plainly clear. That the sister count is reduced to five is a heartbreak of its own, achingly compounded by the recent loss of the beloved Corey matriarch, Ellen. 

Mary Beth and Ellen had a deep and devoted bond. Mary Beth traveled to Connecticut every other Sunday to visit her mom. They would share drinks and snacks and catch up while watching sports, usually enjoying what mom always referred to as 'the golf.' Her parents loved their daughters fiercely, and although they made sure all six knew unconditional love, there was an obvious favorite. A common catch-phrase among the sisters was: "Who's better than you?" To which the correct answer was, always, "Mary Beth". 

Mary Beth was a voracious reader - the upper west side apartment where she lived for 30 years positively teems with books - and an avid sports fan, for the New York Giants, the New Jersey Devils, UConn basketball, and especially the New York Mets. The night before she died, with four of her sisters in the room, she flipped on the radio to listen to the Mets-Yankees game. Her eyes were closed, and if you didn't know Mar it might have appeared that she was dozing off. But when Torres struck out swinging in the top of the 9th, clinching the game for the Mets, she and her sister Ellie instantly and simultaneously raised their arms in a silent fist pump. 

Mary Beth worked for most of her career in advertising, and spent the last two decades as an indispensable member of the administrative team at Della Femina advertising in New York. Jerry Della Femina said to Mary Beth's sisters, "I don't know how I am going to manage without her." Her five younger sisters, and their families, feel the same way. 

Mary Beth is survived by her sisters and brothers-in-law, Ann Corey, Ellie Corey (Bill Hanrahan), Julie Corey Kelley (John Kelley), Jane Corey Holt (Doug Holt) and Jacquie Corey; her nieces and nephews, Colleen Young Murrell (Brenton Murrell), Erin Young, Joseph Young, Corey Holt, Noah Holt, Dylan Holt and Clara Kennedy; and her great-niece Hatten Murrell. She is predeceased by her parents, Joseph Michael Corey and Ellen Flatley Corey, and her nephew James Joseph Kennedy. 

A Celebration of Mary Beth's too-short but beautiful life will be hosted by her family and colleagues in Manhattan on August 19th. All who loved Mary Beth are welcome to join us. For details, please email MBCoreyNYC@gmail.com. 

If you would like to make a donation in Mary Beth's honor, please consider donating to the Amazin' Mets Foundation.





Monday, July 18, 2022

July 18

According to my extensive research (thank you, Mr. Google), July 18 is National Caviar Day.

According to nationaldaycalendar.com,

In simple terms, caviar is Sturgeon fish eggs. There are several species of Sturgeon fish. As a result, the caviar produced varies in colors depending on the species. Caviar is full of protein and vitamins making the delicacy a healthy meal. The United States led distribution at 600 tons per year until around 1900. However, due to the over-harvesting of Sturgeon fish for the caviar, the U.S. banned harvesting for a time to protect the sturgeon fish from becoming extinct. The population has never recovered sufficiently since the ban, resulting in caviar’s continued status as a luxury item. Since then, harvesting, import, and export are restricted. However, since sturgeon don’t reach maturity until they are between 6-25 years old, depending on the breed, establishing a farm takes time. Once they reach maturity, aquaculture needed to perfect methods for spawning. According to the North American Sturgeon and Paddlefish Society, by 2012 there were 21 sturgeon farms in the U.S. and Canada.

Today also, apparently, is National Sour Candy Day

In the candy world, sour candy is the young, energetic, and fun member of the candy family. It awakens the taste buds and adds a punch of youthful energy. Every flavor combination out there creates a dazzling taste sensation. Surprisingly, sometimes a sweet candy delivers a walloping tear-jerking zap in a bite-sized lozenge or sucker that lasts for several minutes. Other times, it delivers the punch in a chewy form. These fun sour candies come in a variety of entertaining shapes and sizes. From chewy twists and ropes to sweet bite-sized pieces and straws, each one creates a unique juicy tang, indeed. On this sweet holiday, instead of trying regular old candy, celebrate by trying sour candy. It’s like having a birthday and not getting any older! 

And who doesn't know that July 18 is National Get Out of the DogHouse Day? But I'm not copying and pasting that description because it is dumb and obvious. Basically, be nice so you don't end up *in* the doghouse. Take a tip from the World Listening Project because today is also World Listening Day:

Shhh… do you hear that? It’s the sound of World Listening Day on July 18. World Listening Day is hosted every year by the World Listening Project, a nonprofit organization that is “devoted to understanding the world and its natural environment, societies, and cultures through the practice of listening and field recording.” They explore acoustic ecology, a discipline that studies the relationship between humans and the natural world as mediated through sound. So quiet down, open up your ears, and get ready to study soundscapes on World Listening Day.

And finally, and best of all, July 18 is Nelson Mandela's birthday, and Nelson Mandela International Day. 


From nationaltoday.com:
Nelson Mandela has many accolades. He’s  an iconic figure that triumphed over South Africa’s apartheid regime. He was a human rights lawyer, a prisoner of conscience, and an international peacemaker. And he was the first democratically elected president of a free South Africa. So you see why the United Nations General Assembly would want to celebrate his life. Commemorated on July 18 — Nelson Mandela’s birthday — Nelson Mandela International Day celebrates the idea that each individual has the power to transform the world and the ability to make an impact. So, in honor of his 67 years of public service, the Nelson Mandela Foundation and the U.N. ask that you spend 67 minutes of your time helping others.



I like that idea. 67 minutes of your time helping others today. You can help others by listening to them, I'm thinking. Then you can treat yourself to caviar and sour candy.

Monday, July 11, 2022

Summertime Gloriousness

We are fully in it around here . . . it is full on Summertime.


The beach is glorious . . . 

Cacti Corey threw out blossom #s 9, 10 and 11 . . . 


 . . . we tried to emulate Tony's Tomatoes . . . 

. . . and did a pretty good job, I might add.

The Sailfest Boom-Booms came back . . . 

(Sailfest Boom-Boom photos stolen from Sailfest site)

And if all that doesn't scream Summertime . . . 

. . . rum and pineapples certainly do.

Happy Summah!