You'll be completely surprised to know that I did not watch even one minute of postseason baseball last night. Not one! Because, you know, I don't really give a flying fruitcake about postseason baseball. (I don't even loathe the boys in pinstripes.)
No, instead of baseball T and I headed over to OB for a night out. For a night out at Winstons.
Winstons does not mean anything to most of you, less, even, than baseball means to me, but if you spent anytime in college in San Diego, you spent some time at Winstons (or you should have).
I spent A LOT of time at Winstons. It was easy to get into with a fake ID, and in fact, if you went early enough they didn't even card you. So I ended up spending many a long night at Winstons, getting in by 8:30 pm so the doorman wouldn'd scrutinize the beat up Maryland drivers license that an older friend had given me, and staying until the band stopped playing, sometime around 1 am. That's a long night of drinking, my friends. And as Thursday was the best night to go to Winstons, I made it a rule to never have classes on Friday.
But those days are long gone. In fact, my 20th college reunion is this weekend.
The good news? Winstons is the same! It's just as dark and divey as ever. It's still a young college crowd in there and still has the tiny women's bathroom with the one tiny sink and two antiquated stalls with toilets that backup too easily. Sadly, the bathroom walls no longer sport actual graffiti, but instead there are these more benign blackboard stall walls, but hey, it's something.
In the bar proper there are still the same belly tables, same stage and small dance floor. I can't be certain this is the same disco ball (or even remember if there used to be one), but we'll pretend it is.
We ended up at Winstons last night thanks to our good friends Johnny and Johanna.
They are very hip folks, of course, and knew that Trevor Hall was playing.
They'd first seen him when he opened up for Michael Franti at the House of Blues a few years back, then at an intimate acoustic Koffeehouse Music show at Johnny's parents' amazing house in Malibu. The kid is young, but has already played with the likes of Ben Harper, Ziggy Marley, Matisyahu, Los Lobos and more.
The show was slated to start at 9 pm.
We arrived just after. Silly middle-aged folks! (Sorry, Jo, you're included by association.) Winstons has not changed in that respect either-- nothing ever starts on time.
And no one cares because they're all throwing back beers and don't have any classes tomorrow. They certainly don't have babysitters waiting at home.
So, we waited for the show to start. The show that started with good ol' Matthew Santos, not Trevor Hall. The show that started at 10:10 pm with Matthew Santos and lovely Annalise (?) (who was just asked to join his tour after meeting him in Austin last Saturday after she sent him youtube videos of herself singing in harmony to his songs. Gotta love a life that gives you the flexibility to say, okay, I'll come, and jump in a van headed to California.)
They sang, and we listened. And waited. For Trevor.
Tick Tock. Time kept passing. Our babysitter curfew was 11:20 pm. Sigh.
But finally, at 10:55 pm, there was Trevor.
After a quick sound check he let down his hair and started to play, sing, and generally rock the house.
Okay, so we were only able to hear five songs before we raced home to the sitter. But it was worth it.
Once upon a glass or twelve of wine, Jacquie and Beth and Ellie got to talking. We decided that we were all enormously smart and clever and hilarious, and that it would be a crime not to share our unique talents with the world. We decided to start a blog together.
We needed a name, so Jacquie asked Beth: “What should we call a blog about meand you and Ellie?” And the rest, as they say, is history. We are having a blast writing this thing, and if there was any trepidation that we were only smart and clever and hilarious that night because of all the wine, our words here thus far have succinctly affirmed our mutual self-admiration.
What are you reading?
Ellie - The Heart is a Lonely Hunter, Carson McCullers
Jacquie - The Goldfinch, Donna Tart
Beth - Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal by Julie Metz